How Long Should You Talk to Someone Before Dating?
When you have a secret crush on someone, you naturally ask yourself: How long should I talk to someone before dating?
The short answer is: It depends on how comfortable you are talking to a person you have a crush on, and it all comes down to your experience.
There are ways to escalate things fast if that is something you want.
Below, I will share a more in-depth answer to provide a more helpful response.
How Long Should You Talk to a Woman Before Dating?
Every romance is different, and every relationship is different from the next, which everyone agrees on, the average Joe and Jane on the street and the experts alike.
As a dating expert myself, I would consider one to two months pretty much the standard time to talk with her before starting to date her, but there are a lot of things to consider like:
- Your age might want more time to get to know her if you’re older to know your crush correctly. If you’re in your late teens or early 20s, you might consider talking with her for a month before asking her for a date.
- What is the standard in your city or country? Every culture, subculture, and society has different standards and expectations. In some countries and communities, dating is unacceptable; in others, dating for as long as you want is beautiful.
- Your experience. If you don’t have much experience, let at least two months pass by before asking your crush out on a date. That is my advice to you.
When you meet her for the first time, it is best to present yourself in the best possible manner, so make sure you’re on top of your game.
Make sure that you have a nice outfit that you feel comfortable wearing. Trying to ask someone out on a date if you’ve just come off the treadmill at the gym all sweaty and stinky isn’t the best way to present yourself to your crush.
If you work in an office, you can date her immediately after work, but you might consider having a shower first if you’re in more manual labor, like construction work.
You might even work at the same place, and then you can talk with her daily and find out more about her before asking her out on a date.
If you have a crush on a woman, and you notice that she clearly shows these signs of interest, you should go for it and ask her out on a date ASAP.
If you aren’t sure, you might want to be on the fence for a while, but the most crucial part is that you do talk with her and find out if she’s available or not.
You might be disappointed when you find out whether she’s available.
If she’s not available, move on to the next. Otherwise, it would help if you acted fast since women these days have a lot of different opportunities from men.
Here is a great way to escalate things with her quickly.
How Long Should I Speak to a Girl Before Dating?
You might want to slow things if you’re younger than your early 20s and more inexperienced than a guy in his 30s, 40s, or older.
However, if you find her hot, it is better to speak to a girl and ask her for a date.
The worst thing you can do is procrastinate and not ask her. The chances are that if you find her hot, most other guys also find her desirable.
I would hate that you would waste your and her time and not ask her out on a date. If she thinks you are a good guy, she will smile when she looks at you to encourage you to ask her on a date.
If you spot that, stop hesitating and act fast.
Otherwise, another guy will take advantage of the situation, especially if she’s hot, and ask her out on a date, leaving you in the dust, miserable and lonely.
To stop that from happening to you, it used to happen to me a lot when I was younger, so I know what you’re going through; you need to act quickly, or you risk losing a chance to date your crush forever.
Here is the quickest way to speak to a girl and ask her out on a date.
What Should I Do Next?
The next step is to ask her out on a date, and below you will find a couple of other articles that might come in handy for you.
You might want to ask her some questions on a date.
I have two recommendations for you.
The first is “21 Good Questions for a New Relationship,” and the other recommendation is “55 Questions to Ask on a Date”.
