How do I keep her attracted to me? That is probably one of the most common questions I get whenever I coach men.
For this reason, I have decided to write an article to teach men like you how to keep women attracted to you and keep them attracted.
Here is what you will get if you read the entire article:
- How do I get a woman attracted to me?
- The nine best ways to keep her attracted to you
- How do I keep her attracted to me?
- How to make her attracted to you again
- How to keep her attracted to you in a relationship
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How Do I Get a Woman Attracted to Me?
I will start with how you can get a woman attracted to you first, then move on and discuss how to keep her attracted to you.
If you are struggling to get a woman attracted to you, there are a couple of things you can do.
Start by making a complete makeover, change your name, face, credit score, and dress; get rich, and women will instantly become attracted to you.
No! I’m just joking, of course. These tips would be horrible.
Instead, it would be best if you used this simple yet highly effective technique that works on women.
I discussed it before, and it will help you escalate things with her quickly, so you can potentially turn a female friend into your next girlfriend in a matter of minutes.
The 9 Best Ways to Keep Her Attracted to You
When we discuss attraction in females, there are nine proven ways to keep her attracted to you, and despite what you might think, it has nothing to do with you, but it’s all about her.
- Bring her gifts occasionally.
- Be a gentleman
- Be a giver in the bedroom, too.
- Compliment her a lot
- Never stop paying attention to her and what she says
- Open your mind to new experiences
- Be yourself
- Focus on yourself and your relationship
- Give her space to grow as an individual.
Before I go into the nine things I discussed above, you should remember that communication and honesty are two essential aspects of all relationships.
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Bring Her Gifts Occasionally
Everybody loves an occasional gift.
If you spoil a woman by always giving her flowers every Friday, for instance, she will get used to it after a while, and she will only be surprised when you don’t give her flowers.
A far better approach is to give her small tokens of appreciation every once in a while, even in the middle of the week.
That will help you in the long run of your relationship.
Be a Gentleman
You should always be a gentleman and treat your woman like royalty.
It includes holding up doors, pulling out chairs, helping when you can, and treating her as well as possible since she deserves it.
When you treat her like that, she will want to spend more time with you, and most women like it.
Be a Giver in the Bedroom
When you are engaged in sexual activities in the bedroom, it is crucial to focus on her pleasure.
Men who can satisfy women sexually and give them orgasms during intercourse will keep their women attracted to them longer.
Women are more eager to stay with a man who can give her orgasm during penile-vaginal intercourse than others, according to this study conducted back in 2015.
To quote Lawrence Lannfoff, the author of Language of Lust, “Be a gentleman in the streets and a Casanova between the sheets.”
If you want insights on how sexual satisfaction helps keep her in a relationship, consider reading my article, where I share some valuable tips that all men need to know.
Compliment Her a Lot
Use compliments occasionally to get the most effect out of them. Also, try to spread them out evenly during the week or month.
If you compliment her a lot in the beginning and then stop, she will wonder what has changed.
So, give her compliments when she needs them, like if she had a bad day.
If you want some tips, here are 65 of the best compliments you can give her.
Never Stop Paying Attention to Her and What She Says
You need to listen to what she says and remember it.
Why?
It is what she will do when you say something.
It will help you gain and build trust and ensure the longevity of your current relationship.
Open Your Mind to New Experiences
It is essential to be a bit adventurous in a relationship.
Try to open up to new possibilities and opportunities and try things that she suggests since it will help you keep her in a relationship.
You might like what you experience. If not, you will at least know that the next time.
Be Yourself
I know it is one of the oldest and most boring pieces of advice but try to be yourself as much as possible.
You don’t want to create a false impression by faking who you are.
Of course, you should always treat her like a gentleman but don’t forget to try to be the best version of yourself.
That will help increase the likelihood of keeping her in a relationship.
Focus on Yourself and Your Relationship
It would be best to focus on yourself and do things you like if you want a long-term relationship.
Couples will have different interests and spend time apart. The time you spend away will make you value and appreciate the time you spend with each other more.
She needs to do the same when you focus on doing the things you like.
None of you are teenagers, and wanting to spend or trying to control your partner’s whereabouts is toxic behavior and spells disaster for all relationships.
If you are practicing them, please stop since it is not the hallmark of a healthy relationship.
A relationship where one person controls the other is an abusive relationship, not a healthy one.
Give Her Space to Grow As an Individual
As I stated above, you need to give her some space to grow as an individual too.
The “me”-time she will invest in pursuing her interests and needs will help you grow as a couple, aka the “we”-time you share.
If you want more tips, you will benefit from reading this article, where I share the best ways to attract women.
How Do I Keep Her Attracted to Me?
You can follow the nine best practices that I discussed above.
Those will help you attract your ideal woman, which is the easy part, but keeping her in a long-term relationship might pose a considerable challenge.
If you struggle with keeping women and building long-term relationships that satisfy her, you will benefit from following the best practices I shared with you.
Another thing that you will benefit from is by learning the language of lust.
Since sexual satisfaction is integral to keeping her satisfied in your relationship, you must know how to give her orgasms, preferably multiple ones.
Remember that a relationship that is healthy works both ways.
How to Make Her Attracted to You Again
If something happened that made the attraction you once had gone away. There is a need to reignite the passion you once felt.
Therapy can help you reignite that love spark, but there are other less expensive ways you might consider trying first.
One is following the nine steps I share above or watching the video I am offering you in this article since they might be worth trying first.
Another thing you might want to try is to use the things I suggest in my article How older men can attract younger women.
Every man, regardless of age, will benefit greatly from reading it since it shares some insights into how the female mind works and how you can keep her in a relationship and grow old together.
Try them before considering relationship counseling which can cost as much as $250 per session twice a week.
How to Keep Her Attracted to You in a Relationship
Keeping her attracted to you in a relationship can be a complicated matter.
However, if you follow these nine steps, you can keep her attracted to you as long as you want:
- Bring her gifts occasionally.
- Be a gentleman
- Be a giver in the bedroom, too.
- Compliment her a lot
- Never stop paying attention to her and what she says
- Open your mind to new experiences
- Be yourself
- Focus on yourself and your relationship
- Give her space to grow as an individual.
They will help you keep her in a relationship for as long as you want, but without any need for toxic behavior.
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In the video, Lawrence shares how you can keep her satisfied in a relationship without manipulation.
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You will help me keep this blog running for the foreseeable future and hopefully enjoy a long-term relationship with a woman without paying a ridiculous amount of your hard-earned money to a therapist.
Happy wife, happy life.
All the best,
Rickard
